Comments for My Gay Life http://www.mygaylife.net You Are Not Alone Mon, 06 Feb 2012 21:59:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on A Brief Glimpse of My Morning by John http://www.mygaylife.net/2012/02/05/a-brief-glimpse-of-my-morning/#comment-445 John Mon, 06 Feb 2012 21:59:48 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=596#comment-445 Damn, I wish I lived there. Great view. Damn, I wish I lived there. Great view.

]]> Comment on Reflections on Christmas by Mr Vain http://www.mygaylife.net/2012/01/05/reflections-on-christmas/#comment-444 Mr Vain Fri, 06 Jan 2012 18:34:11 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=569#comment-444 Hey, I've only started reading your blog recently but really relate to your story and enjoy your blog. Coming out is one of the hardest things I have ever done, as much as I wanted to scream the words "I am gay" just would leave my lips. Even now when I meet new people and they ask about girlfriends I feel like i'm coming out all over again but it gets better. My mum was amazing with it, the next day she was jus making jokes about it! My dad was a bit stranger, I didn't see him for a whole after he found out but when I met him it was cool! My parents have met my partner and he came on a family holiday recently! You sound like you are doing well though so wel done and believe me in a years time you will look back and wonder what all the fuss was about! http://rantsandravingsofagay.blogspot.com/2012/01/its-pretty-dark-in-closet.html Hey, I’ve only started reading your blog recently but really relate to your story and enjoy your blog. Coming out is one of the hardest things I have ever done, as much as I wanted to scream the words “I am gay” just would leave my lips. Even now when I meet new people and they ask about girlfriends I feel like i’m coming out all over again but it gets better. My mum was amazing with it, the next day she was jus making jokes about it! My dad was a bit stranger, I didn’t see him for a whole after he found out but when I met him it was cool! My parents have met my partner and he came on a family holiday recently! You sound like you are doing well though so wel done and believe me in a years time you will look back and wonder what all the fuss was about!

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]]> Comment on Reflection on Coming Out by Mr Vain http://www.mygaylife.net/2011/11/26/reflection-on-coming-out/#comment-442 Mr Vain Sun, 27 Nov 2011 23:07:56 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=558#comment-442 I am fairly new to the world of blogging and found your blog today. I found it very interesting and could relate to a lot of what you wrote. I wish I had a blog when I was coming out. I am 23 and I came out to my friends when I was 20 and shortly after told my mum (who wasn't at all surprised. Since then it has for miles easier my whole family knows and it takes a little getting used to but after a while you totally forget what life was like before you came out! I hope everything gets better very soon for you! X I am fairly new to the world of blogging and found your blog today. I found it very interesting and could relate to a lot of what you wrote.

I wish I had a blog when I was coming out. I am 23 and I came out to my friends when I was 20 and shortly after told my mum (who wasn’t at all surprised. Since then it has for miles easier my whole family knows and it takes a little getting used to but after a while you totally forget what life was like before you came out!

I hope everything gets better very soon for you! X

]]> Comment on Came Out to My Dad by Peter http://www.mygaylife.net/2011/11/22/came-out-to-my-dad/#comment-441 Peter Thu, 24 Nov 2011 15:41:22 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=555#comment-441 Hey Chris! Well first off, I'd like to say congratulations! This must have been so hard and so stressful for you! Been there! Anyway, I understand your reaction regarding your dad. That being said, I think you should probably give him some time to get familiar with the whole idea of you being gay. I also think he will eventually figure out that being gay is NOT a choice. Besides, he'll be happy to see you with a loving boyfriend (soon, I hope!). At the end of the day, I'm pretty sure you feel so relieved (I know I did). I'm proud of you! You take care, Pete. Hey Chris! Well first off, I’d like to say congratulations! This must have been so hard and so stressful for you! Been there! Anyway, I understand your reaction regarding your dad. That being said, I think you should probably give him some time to get familiar with the whole idea of you being gay. I also think he will eventually figure out that being gay is NOT a choice. Besides, he’ll be happy to see you with a loving boyfriend (soon, I hope!). At the end of the day, I’m pretty sure you feel so relieved (I know I did). I’m proud of you!

You take care,

Pete.

]]> Comment on Coming Out to My Mom Tomorrow by Eric http://www.mygaylife.net/2011/11/16/coming-out-to-my-mom-tomorrow/#comment-440 Eric Mon, 21 Nov 2011 16:30:02 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=547#comment-440 Are you 100% sure your mom okay with... that? It didn't work for me once and I'm not going to try it again. Not many people really accept us though they always say they do. I hope your mom will understand but if she doesn't, just don't be despaired. Are you 100% sure your mom okay with… that? It didn’t work for me once and I’m not going to try it again. Not many people really accept us though they always say they do. I hope your mom will understand but if she doesn’t, just don’t be despaired.

]]> Comment on Coming Out to My Mom Tomorrow by Ehron http://www.mygaylife.net/2011/11/16/coming-out-to-my-mom-tomorrow/#comment-439 Ehron Thu, 17 Nov 2011 00:43:30 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=547#comment-439 Chris, I would prepare for it to go badly; even if it doesn't, you should. I wasn't prepared for it to go badly either and let's just say I ran out of tears :( Chris, I would prepare for it to go badly; even if it doesn’t, you should. I wasn’t prepared for it to go badly either and let’s just say I ran out of tears :(

]]> Comment on Wonders of an iPad by Ehron http://www.mygaylife.net/2011/11/12/wonders-of-an-ipad/#comment-438 Ehron Sun, 13 Nov 2011 06:35:15 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=541#comment-438 You are my new favorite person right now! I got an ipad too! they're pretty awesome XD and I'll click on the adds just to give you money, I know you're not trying to be annoying anybody who thought that is a moron! :) You are my new favorite person right now! I got an ipad too! they’re pretty awesome XD and I’ll click on the adds just to give you money, I know you’re not trying to be annoying anybody who thought that is a moron! :)

]]> Comment on Coming Out to My Parents by Peter http://www.mygaylife.net/2011/10/17/coming-out-to-my-parents/#comment-434 Peter Sat, 22 Oct 2011 13:26:52 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=502#comment-434 Hi there Chris! I've been reading your blog for a while now, and this is the very first time I felt the need to post a comment. You see, I came out to my parents last August, so everything's pretty new to me, as a gay guy I mean. Anyway, even though my family background is very different from yours (my parents are pretty open-minded I guess) I would say that coming out really does make you feel a LOT better. I hope everything's going to be fine for you, do NOT assume the worst! Thanks a lot for posting! If you feel like talking, send me an email! Pete. Hi there Chris! I’ve been reading your blog for a while now, and this is the very first time I felt the need to post a comment. You see, I came out to my parents last August, so everything’s pretty new to me, as a gay guy I mean. Anyway, even though my family background is very different from yours (my parents are pretty open-minded I guess) I would say that coming out really does make you feel a LOT better. I hope everything’s going to be fine for you, do NOT assume the worst! Thanks a lot for posting! If you feel like talking, send me an email!

Pete.

]]> Comment on Anonymity by Ehron http://www.mygaylife.net/2011/10/21/anonymity/#comment-433 Ehron Sat, 22 Oct 2011 03:33:58 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=514#comment-433 No, I think in your position your fine to not put your full name, I would put my full name but hey! I'm a kid and I don't have potential employers yet. But then again if you put your full name and your proud of it, and an employer sees it and doesnt pick you based on JUST that, you know they're going to be assholes who don't deserve your employment, Hell! If they do that you'll see they're true colors, and eventually when you get comfortable to put your full name here, wouldn't they want to fire you if they were already like that? Or suddenly when they find out about your sexual orientation/that you are a gay man/about your opinions and they start discriminating agianst you JUST because of that, don't you think you'll not want to work for them? Either way they'll find out (with the way you want your life to be) so I guess it is better for you to get it out now... Think of it this way, if a future employer sees this and wants to hire you for your spirit, then you would know that he would be a good boss. I don't know, it's always up to you Chris, I'm sure you'll make the right decision :) No, I think in your position your fine to not put your full name, I would put my full name but hey! I’m a kid and I don’t have potential employers yet. But then again if you put your full name and your proud of it, and an employer sees it and doesnt pick you based on JUST that, you know they’re going to be assholes who don’t deserve your employment, Hell! If they do that you’ll see they’re true colors, and eventually when you get comfortable to put your full name here, wouldn’t they want to fire you if they were already like that? Or suddenly when they find out about your sexual orientation/that you are a gay man/about your opinions and they start discriminating agianst you JUST because of that, don’t you think you’ll not want to work for them? Either way they’ll find out (with the way you want your life to be) so I guess it is better for you to get it out now… Think of it this way, if a future employer sees this and wants to hire you for your spirit, then you would know that he would be a good boss. I don’t know, it’s always up to you Chris, I’m sure you’ll make the right decision :)

]]> Comment on Don’t Ask Don’t Tell Repealed by Kenny http://www.mygaylife.net/2011/09/20/dont-ask-dont-tell-repealed/#comment-432 Kenny Sat, 15 Oct 2011 04:00:59 +0000 http://www.mygaylife.net/?p=487#comment-432 Glad to hear all is good with his family. Glad to hear all is good with his family.

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