Well I guess it is way past time to write again, but I find myself asking what to write. Since my last post, not a whole lot has happened. I haven’t made it out to the gay bars yet, I really have not met anyone special, I have basically been stuck sitting around waiting for that first paycheck or two. I almost did come out to some people, but it was neither the time or place to do so.
Therefore with nothing to write about me, I think I am stuck writing my opinion on gay relationships. Specifically gay relationships between three or more people and why I think these work, when the same relationships do not work for straight couples.
When looking at the gay community a large number are either in or interested in a relationship with two or more guys. A straight mindset says this will never work. However, straight relationships and gay relationships have unique differences. First and foremost, straight relationships have females and in todays society females are raised to believe that sleeping with more than one guy is wrong. Well they do not necessarily follow this strictly, but they do seem to say you can only be in a relationship and love one person. However, guys see things differently. Straight guys say if she’s hot and her personality is not repulsive why not be in a relationship with her. Well with only guys being in a gay relationship to me at least the thought is what is stopping me from falling in love with more than one person.
Besides if there is more than two in a couple, there are more people to share the burden of finances. If one of the members of the relationship has a job that requires travel the others are not left alone. And thinking dirty there are just so many more things you can do with your partners. So honestly, I would prefer a threeway or fourway or even more relationship. There should be no rule saying you can only love one person. I want to love as many people as God has given me to love.