Why is it that when you look on some of the gay social sites to try to find some guys your age it is nearly impossible to find below the age of 40?
Recently, I have started looking around some of the gay social networking sites trying to find guys in my area around my age I would like to hang out with. Not necessarily be in a relationship with, but just someone to have as a friend and be able to talk to. However, when looking at the site, it is very difficult to find anyone who is under the age of 40. I realize most of the gay guys out there anymore have come out by the time they turn 18, or they don’t come out until later in life. And I also realize, that the guys who come out by the age of 18, already have a good group of gay friends and don’t hang out on gay social networking sites.
However, there still have to be some guys in my predicament coming out at 22, just upon graduating college. Instead it seems I sit on the gay social networking site getting hit on by 50 and 60 year olds trying to throw up every flag I can, that I am not interested in them. I want someone between 18 and 30 I can hang out with. If it turns into more than that, great, but my main focus is just friends.
January 26th, 2010 at 8:53 am
I don’t know where Chris is looking but I find things just the oppersite from him. It looks to me like there is no place in this world for a gay guy over 30. The adds I have been reading say they are looking for someone between 18 and 25. How often do you go to a gay bar and find anyone over 50. I wish there was a gay bar for older guys in the Gulf Coast area. In the last 2 years I have only had 2 guys and they didn’t come back and I believe it was on my age (75) because I have been told many times that I am good at what I do. (suck)