Why is it that when you look on some of the gay social sites to try to find some guys your age it is nearly impossible to find below the age of 40?
Recently, I have started looking around some of the gay social networking sites trying to find guys in my area around my age I would like to hang out with. Not necessarily be in a relationship with, but just someone to have as a friend and be able to talk to. However, when looking at the site, it is very difficult to find anyone who is under the age of 40. I realize most of the gay guys out there anymore have come out by the time they turn 18, or they don’t come out until later in life. And I also realize, that the guys who come out by the age of 18, already have a good group of gay friends and don’t hang out on gay social networking sites.
However, there still have to be some guys in my predicament coming out at 22, just upon graduating college. Instead it seems I sit on the gay social networking site getting hit on by 50 and 60 year olds trying to throw up every flag I can, that I am not interested in them. I want someone between 18 and 30 I can hang out with. If it turns into more than that, great, but my main focus is just friends.
